Chris Brown Cries on BET, is Redeemed?


Chris Brown gave a tribute to Michael Jackson last night on the BET Awards, singing and dancing (really well, I’ll add) and eventually sobbing uncontrollably during “Man In the Mirror,” rendering himself unable to lip-synch sing.

The people singing his praises last night were mostly celebrities too, that is until it was announced later in the show that he won the “Fandemonium” award decided by BET viewers.

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Really? Three guesses if this is the year he sweeps the Kid’s Choice Awards, too.

“I let you all down before,” he said when he picked it up. “I won’t do it again.”

Okay, well, I hope so.

He was sentenced to five years of probation for severely beating Rihanna last February. He apologized. He has to do some community service, and hopefully he will, as he has said, continue to “work on himself” so he will never again fly into a rage and beat anyone. Ever. Because I don’t care what kind of songs you sing or who says what about you, that is the desired outcome here.

A scan of the comments on just about any post about his performance last night shows the clear consensus:  leave Chris Brown alone. He’s done his penance. Shut up about Chris Brown, u h8trs, those were some real tears.

But you know what I really don’t like about these comments? The slams on Rihanna, that’s what. You know who’s been through enough? Anyone who gets her face and body beaten so badly that her eyes are swollen shut, that’s who. And I like to think that I believe in redemption too. I’m just weary of the culture of instant forgiveness — do this or that interview or emote on this or that show or go to this or that sex rehab and the population decides that you got a raw deal and everyone should leave you alone.

Honestly? The only thing that shows that is time. And seriously, if my career was on the line and saving it demanded some extreme measures, I’d cry too.

Maybe Chris Brown does love Michael Jackson, I don’t know. Maybe that was some real grief. This was a Michael Jackson tribute, after all.

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You know, that guy — that guy who really got raked over the coals. And maybe deservedly so — like I said, I didn’t know Michael Jackson.

Or maybe he couldn’t believe he was back on a stage in front of his peers. Maybe he has realized the enormity of his mistakes. I don’t know Chris Brown either. I just hope everyone singing his praises is right, and hell yeah, I hope he feels badly about what he did — because that’s the best way to make sure it doesn’t happen again. Personal accountability is what’s up, h8trs.

And I mean that sincerely. I hope he does too.

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  • http://www.sweetney.com Sweetney

    Crying on an awards show = redemption? I dunno, man. I’m all for forgiveness, but he still gives me the creeps a little in a way I can’t shake.

  • http://jodifur.com/ jodifur

    I didn’t see it, because I was watching this travesty they call the Daytime Emmy’s. I would like to see Chris Brown in some hardcore therapy and in a relationship where he doesn’t hit a girl. Then I will call him redeemed. Singing and dancing and crying on stage does nothing for me.

  • http://www.thepalinode.com Palinode

    Men who beat their girlfriends and cry on stage = men who beat their girlfriends.

    • http://www.sweetney.com Sweetney

      Yeeeeah, that’s kind of my gut reaction.

  • DianaCLT

    So a dude that beat his girlfriend and threatened to kill her, got up and sang about a dude who (many believe) molested little kids…and people are all “thumbs up”py about it? What alternate universe is this? And how do I get back to sanity?

  • http://www.jurgennation.com Jurgen Nation

    Oh, this piece of shit. Since when do people believe in redemption? Turn on any crime show and invariably some douchebag gets out of jail for a crime, commits it again and then an angry mom descends on the correctional system for letting him go too early. And this douchebag didn’t even have to go to jail! He’s crying because he can’t take this backlash and the hit to his career. This act is driven by money. Was he crying when he did this? Nah, he was jet skiing. He was flaunting his “I’m untouchable” act and it was only when he began to see and feel the pinch of the backlash that he “turned around.” There is no redemption for beating women, or crimes like rape, sexual assault on children, etc. OH! Except when they’re famous. THEN there’s redemption. Right?

    I hate this piece of shit.

    • http://aol HEY JERGEN NATION

      I LIKE HOW EVERYONES ALWAYS GOT SOMETHING BAD TO SAY ABOUT HIM, BUT NO ONE REALLY KNOWS THE REAL STORY. LOL HE DIDNT JUST HAPPEN TO START WHOOPING RHIANNAS ASS. SHE ACTUALLY ATTACKED HIM ON THE WAY TO THE AWARD SHOW AND THEN HE WHOOPED HER ASS. SELF-DEFENCE FIRST. SRY HE WAS TOO IN LOVE WITH HER TO TELL THE TRUE STORY. NOT TO MENTION AFTER THE SITUATION SHE WAS RIGHT BY HIS SIDE FOR MONTHS(O SHE WAS REALLY TRAMATIZED). DONT BULLSHIT YOURSELFS THEYRE FAMILYS CONSTANTLY TRAVEL WITH THEM, WHY THE FUCK WOULD THEY ALLOW THAT TO HAPPEN IF HE WAS SUCH A BAD GUY? COME ON. OPEN YOUR EYES. AND THAT ACT SHE PLAYED A WHOLE 6 MONTHS LATER WHEN HER ALBUM WAS ABOUT TO DROP. TALKING ABOUT “WHEN I LOOK INTO HER EYES I SAW A MONSTER”(BULLSHIT). SHES FROM BARBADOS THEY MAKE A LIVING OUT OF HITTING THEIR MEN. STOP BEING SO STUPID AND USE YOUR BRAINS. SHOULD HE HAVE HIT HER BACK? NO, BUT WHATS DONE IS DONE, HE MADE A MISTAKE.

  • http://www.jurgennation.com Jurgen Nation

    An angry “MOB,” not an angry “MOM,” although the latter may well be true.

  • http://aol blank

    HES YOUNG, SHIT HAPPENDS. HE FEELS BAD ABOUT IT, WHY SHOULDNT WE GIVE HIM A SECOND CHANCE. AT THE END OF THE DAY ITS HIS TALENT THAT WERE LOOKING FOR NOT HIS CHARACTER.

  • http://www.sweetney.com Sweetney

    Why is all caps necessary here? Can we at least stop yelling?

  • Katie Kat

    Geez – I agree with Sweetney – ENOUGH YELLING IN ALL CAPS!

    Hey Jergon Nation – you do have an opinion. It’s a shame that it’s so hateful and misogynistic. The facts are that Rhianna was BEATEN. If she touched him, he certainly didn’t have a mark on him.

    Yes, his performance was wonderful and it’s obvious he’s talented and a huge fan of MJ. He may learn from his mistakes and that would be the best outcome of all, but for now – still a douchebag.

  • BHJ

    It’s true. I’ve been beaten by career women from Barbados making their living.

  • pandemonium

    Hey Jergen Nation – it is very common for abused women to “stand by their man.” The abuse is not only physical, it is very emotional and mental. Until you’ve stood in those shoes you have no idea! I was strong and independent and would’ve never thought I’d end up in a position like that, but I did… And I stayed far too long. In hindsight, it is unthinkable, but in the midst of the abuse I lost who I was. I pray you are never in that situation so you never have to know.