Hollywood May-December Romances – Cute or Creepy?


In a ceremony that took place on Thursday in Somerset, England, Director Sam Taylor-Wood (45) and  actor Aaron Johnson (22) became Sam Taylor-Johnson and Aaron Taylor-Johnson. Yes! The Taylor-Johnsons have tied the knot.

Remember them? The two met in 2009 on the set of Nowhere Boy—a movie about John Lennon’s early yearswhen the 40-year-old Taylor-Wood made her debut directing the 18-year-old (ridiculously cute) Aaron Johnson. Just a year later, she was pregnant and the two were engaged. They now have two daughters…and wedding rings!

These two don’t seem to care that there’s a 24-year age gap. Johnson says, “I’m an old soul and she’s a young soul. We don’t see an age gap, we just see each other.”

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The May-December romance is certainly not a rarity—or a surprise—in Hollywood these days, and many of the couples range from surprisingly kind of adorable to undoubtedly creepy. Interestingly, the term May-December suggests that one member is still in the spring of his or her life and the other is, well, not. It’s a fun game I like to play—kind of adorable or creepy. Let’s play, shall we?

Let’s start with an easy one.

Amber Tamblyn and David Cross—19-year age difference. Creepy. Apparently, the two first met and bonded while making fun of the products in a SkyMall magazine on a flight and that the Spiderman theme song is the song they first kissed too. And while these actually kind of make me like them a heck of a lot, their relationship still kind of squicks me out. (It’s a word.)

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Harrison Ford and Calista Flockhart—22-year age difference. Kind of adorable. They just seem to work.  Calista once said about the difference in their ages, ”I like to tease him about it. I use it against him. He’s lived a very long time, you know. He knows everything. I say, ‘Yes honey, you’re very old, we know that.’”

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AnnaLynne McCord and Dominic Purcell—17-year age difference. Creepy. And with them, it’s not really even the age thing. Apparently, these two love to engage in public displays of affection on the beach, while Purcell’s 8-year-old daughters watch and take photographs of the entire thing.

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Doug Hutchinson and Courtney Stodden—34-year age difference. 1000% creeeeeeeepy. Let’s not forget that that Courtney was only 16 years old when these two got hitched.

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Warren Beatty and Annette Bening—17-year age difference. Kind of adorable. “Everybody who has an age difference in their marriage has to address it at times because you’re at different stages in your life,” Bening told the Daily Mail in 2007. “You’re going through different things. You have to have a fundamental love and mutual respect for one another for it to work.”

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Ellen Barkin and Sam Levinson—31-year age difference. (REALLY) Surprisingly adorable. Ellen Barkin is so badass that she can do just about anything in my books, and that includes dating the son of Barry Levinson, the Diner director who launched her career thirty years ago. While Barkin doesn’t comment too much on her personal life, Sam is much more gushy when he talks about her. He told the New York Daily News, ”We’ve been together for like, three years, under the radar. You know, when you get to know her, she’s not that tough. She’s beautiful and intelligent and we live creatively together.”

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And there are so many others if you guys want to play at home. Mariah Carey and Nick Cannon are 11 years apart. Beyoncé and Jay-Z—12 years apart. Al Pacino and Lucila Sola are 40 years apart. Celine Dion and Rene Angelil are 26 years apart and met when Celine was only 12 years old. Ryan Seacrest and Julianne Hough are 13 years apart. Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes are 17 years apart and, honestly, even though I have heard her tell that story about a hundred times on various talk shows that she had posters of her teenage crush Tom Cruise on her walls and dreamed that she would one day be Mrs. Tom Cruise, I think the age difference is probably the least creepy thing about their relationship.

And, as far as the the newlywed Taylor-Johnsons go…I think they are surprisingly adorable.

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About Ali Martell

When Ali isn't writing her Seinfeld-esque drivel over at her personal site, Cheaper Than Therapy, or writing about fashion on her YummyMummyClub.ca blog From Hemlines to Heels, she is giving Buffy the Vampire Slayer a chance, laughing maniacally at the absurdity of 50 Shades of Grey, and trying to stop the world from wearing leggings as pants.



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  • Tyskkvinna

    I think some of the creepy factor may rely on the general maturity disparity of either party. And generally that is on the part of the older one… who may try too hard to still act “young”, hang out with the “cool kids”… I think Callista and Harrison hit on the head, he admits he is old and she teases him about it. Nobody tries to hide it.

    Also making it less creepy across the board: When both are old enough that even if you subtract the difference in age from them, they’re both well out of “young adulthood”.

    • http://twitter.com/ryenerman ryenerman

      I was coming here to say something similar. I think a large age difference is much less creepy when both people are full fledged adults (let’s say in their 20s) when they get together. It’s the teenager/adult pairings that make me uncomfortable.

      • alimartell

        That totally makes sense. It seems like the gap closes in when both are older and mature..or something?

        • http://swanfeet.wordpress.com/ ladyphlogiston

          I’ve heard the rule given as “half your age plus seven” for the youngest person you can date without being creepy, and it seems to work pretty well and accounts for that change as they get older. When they’re both old enough to know what they’re doing it’s much less creepy.

  • http://www.jessisscatteredmind.blogspot.com/ Jessi

    My parents are 11 years apart and got married when my dad was 18. So my threshold is probably higher than most. Also, I think David Cross and Amber Tamblyn are so adorable. Possibly because I love them both.

    • alimartell

      I love them both too. But together, I don’t know, there’s something WEIRD for me about it.

  • http://twitter.com/jenbshaw Jen

    Is it ok if I don’t find Harrison and Calista adorable ONLY because I’m insanely jealous of her?

    Also, surprisingly (or not maybe), I agree with you on every single point.

    • alimartell

      That’s totally allowed…that you are jealous ;)

      also…that you agree with me. Heh.

  • http://nualareilly.wordpress.com/ Nuala Reilly

    Agreed on all counts. Especially the Hutchinson/Stodden one. Holy hell they freak me out. Have you seen their interviews? I wonder if he keeps her all doped up on E or something, the way she acts. GROSS

  • http://twitter.com/heymrswilson Jen Wilson

    I definitely agree with all your creepy/adorable labels. Especially Harrison Ford/Calista Flockhart. I’ve always found them extra adorable. And just maybe Harrison Ford is on my List even though he’s 41 years older than me. And Doug Hutchinson/Courtney Stodden gives me the willies.

    And I agree that the Holmes-Cruses are extra-creepy and yes, it has nothing to do with the age gap. It has more to do with the fact that Tom Cruise grew/grows creepier and creepier as he aged/ages.

  • SuzyQuzey

    Celine Dion and her hubs have always squicked me out. She was 12!

  • http://www.sweetney.com Sweetney

    Go Ellen Barkin! :)

  • funkymama1

    Am I the only one who didn’t know what ‘May-December’ meant? THANK YOU so much for explaining.

    I had no idea Ellen Barkin was dating someone younger. Good on her, he’s adorable.

  • http://twitter.com/thegrumbles the grumbles

    Nail + head + you = this. Isn’t it funny how sometimes (as mentioned in other comments) the maturity level of the pair makes it adorable, and sometimes, RUNAWAYNO. And I’m looking at the Hutchinson/Stodden there.

  • I(the admin)

    I guess I’m the odd gal out because I don’t find David Cross and Amber Tamblyn creepy at all. What I strongly disagree with his is beard, it’s got to go, but other than that I think they’re adorbs.